- Step 1
The first step toward healing is allowing yourself to accept that the
relationship is over. At times, we can be in denial and avoid facing this simple fact. - Step 2
Stop punishing yourself for what happened, and let go of all of your negative feelings. Write a letter with all your negative feelings and burn it afterwards. Allow yourself to grieve.
- Step 3
Once you have let go of these feelings and realize you cannot control such factors in your life, do some self introspective soul-searching to figure out what you have learned through the whole process. Make a list of all the lessons you have learned and find ways to apply them to a new life.
- Step 4
Become new and do away with the old. It is now time to reinvent yourself. Now is the time to let go of regrets, heartbreak and anything that wears you down. Get rid of all the negative influences in your old life and start fresh.
- Step 5
Learn to smile, and find new ways to occupy your time. Develop new habits to replace the time you spent grieving over past relationships.
- REPLACE THE VOID WITH SOMEONE NEW. Always helps the healing process.
"Now that's DOPE"