Performing above-average oral sex on a woman takes some skill and an understanding of women’s bodies. There are several things that can go wrong, however if you understand what’s required to send her over the edge, you can become a master of oral sex, and be talked about, fantasized about and remembered for the rest of her natural life. The beauty of oral sex is that it doesn’t matter how big your penis is, how cut you are or how ugly you are; when your face is covered in her, neither of you will care. The rule? Ladies first.
The basics
Getting your tongue to do the right thing during your lady's first adventure might seem difficult, but the trick is to start off slowly and softly. Pretend she is a sweet lollipop, and you want to savor every lick. Flex your tongue, soften it, explore -- then repeat.Keeping the pressure light will make her hot with anticipation, which is exactly what you want for the majority of your exploration. She will realize that you are not going to hurt her, so she will be able to relax and enjoy it. Keep clitoris licks soft and gentle, and then eventually take the clitoris into your mouth and suck it softly.
At all times read her body language, and work accordingly. Eventually you can insert your tongue slightly inside of her and work up to a finger (or fingers), but don’t jam yourself into her. Keep your fingers near the entrance where the most nerve endings are and be gentle -- unless she says otherwise.
Tricks and tips
Don’t slobber, bite, apply too much pressure, go too fast, be rough, or be tense -- relax and enjoy yourself, and she will, too. Don’t think that oral sex is an appetizer because it can be starters, the main course or dessert.Do explore, keep it gentle and soft, experiment a little with techniques and positions, and read her signals.
Positions
Some positions are better than others for getting easy (and precise) access to her body. Lay your lady on her back with her legs spread apart and her knees slightly bent. Lie on your stomach between her legs and place both your arms under her legs (this leaves your hands free). Sitting in the same position also works well, but you can put both your hands under her butt, holding her up and bringing her closer to you. Another good option is to have her lie back on the bed with her butt near the edge, her feet resting on the edge of the bed, and you kneel in front of her. These are not the only options, but they are good for starters.Female erogenous zones
Women’s bodies are full of erogenous zones. In fact, almost every place on a woman’s body could be called an erogenous zone, so don’t ever limit yourself to her vagina and breasts -- that is cardinal sin number one. Her inner thighs, behind her knees, buttocks, neck, ears, and feet are all hot spots that should never be ignored. However, her mouth is the most erotic place to get her started, so it’s useful to always start with kisses.Buying sex toys
Buying a sex toy for your lover can be difficult. Bigger is not better, but something that vibrates (and is compact and simple) will be a useful addition to her collection. She doesn’t need something shaped like a penis (she has you), so try to get something that you can’t give her, then share it with her.There are many, many varieties of sex toys, made with different materials such as silicon, rubber, plastic, glass, and metal. Silicon sex toys are the most lifelike and warm quickly, while hard rubber is the least pleasant on the flesh. Don’t buy something cheap -- quality comes at a cost. Present it to her as a gift, and use your imagination in the presentation. Ensure that you have your logic set out so she knows you thought about it carefully before purchasing. Even if the toy is a dud, you get loads of brownie points for trying.
Ladies first
When you are trying to do your best work pleasuring your lover but not getting the results you both want, it can be disheartening. However, Askmen.com’s step-by-step guide to getting her off the first time, every time, is essential reading for every man. From the Bar to the Bedroom teaches you everything you need to know about pleasing your lover, and expands on all the advice given here including many more oral sex positions and tricks to try. Stick to the rules to start with, then, when you have it sorted, you can work out your own style that suits your lover. Good luck!Via. AM
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