UPDATE *Exclusive* Chris Brown Gives Rihanna Black Eye For Giving Him Herpes?!?!?

UPDATE: Bossip just exclusively learned that Chris Brown and Rihanna got into a heated argument which was reportedly about how Rihanna gave him Herpes, which resulted in him giving Rihanna a black eye. Our source tells us that there is a warrant out for his arrest and neither star will be performing or attending the Grammys this evening. You heard it here first.
Read below. Bossip will keep you updated on all of the details.

It looks Chris Brown may be arrested by “one-time” for hitting a woman today. Some speculate this is definitely Rihanna pressing the charges.
Chris Brown is under investigation for alleged domestic violence felony battery, the LAPD confirms to PEOPLE.

“The identity of the victim will not be released,” said Officer April Harding. “Any victim who’s involved in a domestic violence incident is entitled to confidentiality.”
Around 12:30 a.m. on Sunday, the R&B singer and a woman were in a vehicle in L.A. when they became involved in an argument, according to a police statement. After stopping his car, Brown and the woman got out and the argument escalated. The woman suffered visible injuries and identified Brown as her attacker, according to police.

The LAPD received a 911 call reporting the disturbance.When officers arrived they found the victim, but Brown had already left the scene, the statement reads. The LAPD is conducting an investigation into the incident. Earlier Saturday night Brown and girlfriend Rihanna were at the Recording Academy and Clive Davis’s Pre-Grammy Gala in Beverly Hills.
Rihanna probably was ridin’ on Chris about his recent jump off activity and he tried to check her. SMH.

Can you imagine what they would do to “Breezy” in the cali “Pen”.
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UPDATE *Exclusive* Chris Brown Gives Rihanna Black Eye For Giving Him Herpes?!?!?

The Player: Push Her Past Her Comfort Zone - Pt 2.

Sex in public:
The majority of women I’ve spoken with really embrace the risk; the age-old concept of “danger is sexy” continues to resonate with the females, regardless of age or era. When a woman is asked: “What’s the wildest thing you’ve ever done?” a common answer involves sex in a public area, and the greater the risk of getting caught, the hotter it was. It’s all about spontaneity; some hotties will be impressed if you nab them during a long elevator ride or push them up against the wall of a dressing room. Just remember, if they’re not into it, you need to abandon the idea immediately.

Videotape the fun:
In the age of technology, more and more people are starting to tape their sexual encounters (say “hello” Pam and Tommy). Some women are very much against the idea, though, so don’t step over the line and secretly tape the action. That’s slimy with a capital “S.” However, many women have told me -- in hushed yet decidedly excited tones -- that a camera can really expand on and push her past her comfort zone, and sometimes, they’re not sure how they’ll behave. If you’re convinced your woman is capable of going further, and she’s just yearning to break the mold, offer to break out the webcam. But at least try to keep it under wraps, yes?

Wild Threesome:
Usually, this is a step that requires some planning and discussion, but if both of you are willing to experiment to the max, there’s always the option of adding another body to the amorous cauldron of uninhibited pleasure. It’s the Holy Grail of Player-dom, and women have specifically said to me that they’re not quite as adverse to the idea as some guys think. This is the type of wild experience that can open new doors but can also open a giant can of worms if things go awry; therefore, it’s best to solidify the ground rules before embarking. If both of you give the green light, though, you may see your girl smash through so-called boundaries with reckless abandon.

Get her into the dominatrix role:
Women love control. They can dance around it all they like, but deep down, they’re partial to having a firm grasp on things, and if they’re willing to take it to a new level, you might be the sex slave for a night. A woman acting as a dominatrix can get this glazed, dangerous look in her eye, and at that point you'll realize that her ministrations will send you on a mind-blowing roller-coaster ride. Even though it’d be erroneous to assume that all women would be down for this, it’d also be a mistake to think that an especially brash young lady wouldn’t go absolutely wild when faced with a good amount of leather.

Wild thang:
If you’re not willing to take the chance, you may have to resign yourself to a lifetime of predictable, ho-hum sex. On the other hand, if you take a confident step, treat the woman with the appropriate amount of respect and go into everything with an open mind, your world can explode in a fantastic array of new sensations and experiences. Where does her comfort zone end? Can you push her past her comfort zone? How will you know if you never feel around for the answer (pun intended)?

Dont be scurred. PB.

The Player: Push Her Past Her Comfort Zone - Pt 2.

The Player: Push Her Past Her Comfort Zone - Pt 1.

Men will often wonder, “Where’s the line?” This question can hit at any time, and even if you’ve already been with the girl, the answer can remain hazy and out of focus. You may have this particularly hot girl who you occasionally sleep with if the situation presents itself (what’s commonly known as the bed buddy or f*ck friend), and you’re considering taking things to all new heights of intense pleasure. This means pushing her past her comfort zone, which can certainly be a challenge if you’re not prepared. No still means no, but if you’ve established a certain trust with this woman, you can help bring her out of her shell. Therefore, take a gander at the following list of possibilities, partially provided by women who were good enough to speak boldly to the Player. Say “thank you” to the ladies who contributed!

Safe Light bondage:
The Player has encountered ladies who often welcome the introduction of light bondage, which shakes up the ol’ routine. Handcuffs are a relatively common tool in the bedroom, but you can be as creative as you like. Now, if the woman hasn’t ever offered herself to be restrained, it can be a somewhat nerve-racking situation, so perhaps you should offer. One particularly bold woman said, quite matter-of-factly, that there’s “nothing sexier” than a man that she can just “toy around with.” So, if she’s new to the idea of restraint, you can unlock her innate wildness by giving her the key -- literally.

Anal sex:
Some of the more adventurous couples have already experimented with this, but it can be tricky to ascertain if your lady is interested in giving it a try. Some men have tried to put the woman on the spot and push her past her comfort zone, bringing up the possibility when already locked in the middle of a passionate sexual excursion, but it’s both disrespectful and a tad manipulative. The time to bring it up is during a light foreplay session, when the thoughts of her impending pleasure are beginning to cascade through her head. She won’t feel bad about rejecting the idea and she’s still in the right position to accept it, if she’s so inclined.

Risky positions:
It’s one of the single biggest complaints women have, and even though it depicts men in a less-than-rosy light, it’s still true: Guys just aren’t imaginative enough in the bedroom. They have their favorite position and they’ll occasionally mix it up every now and then, but it’s not enough to keep a woman on her toes; it’s not enough to keep her guessing; it’s not enough to push her past her comfort zone and into lioness territory. Got a copy of the Kama Sutra? Do some research, and the next time you two drop to the bed, prepare to introduce her to a good half-dozen positions she’s not expecting. And watch what happens…

Moderate Toys:
Too many men believe that toys are restricted to solo performances, but you may be surprised to learn that some women would like you to experiment a bit with their toys. When the two of you are together, and you’re aware of her little stash, perhaps you could bring up the idea of introducing the items into your foreplay session. Some girls really get off on having their own toys used on them, and it’s a relatively easy subject to broach. Nobody can really get hurt, the woman likely won’t take offense to the suggestion and if she’s not into it, a simple “no” isn’t exactly embarrassing.

The Player: Push Her Past Her Comfort Zone - Pt 1.

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A pic with my latest Razors Edge male.

Last night fights!

Yall niggaz need to lay off that alcohol!?!?!?
I witnessed the dumbest, most pointless arguments last night in the back of my car for absolutely no reason. End of the day, who the hell really cares ???

Get it together guys! Before someone gets hurt...........................again!

PB.
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Last night fights!

Conversation Topics That Lead To Sex.

Most will argue that the most difficult step in securing a lovely vixen for the evening is the approach, but veterans realize the ensuing discussion is just as -- if not more -- intimidating. The obstacle in question is a logical one, but one that typically goes unnoticed by the untrained: as she is indeed a perfect stranger, her likes and dislikes remain a mystery. Feeling around in the dark for her favorite topics of conversation can be both challenging and risky, especially if your goal for the night centers on the loss of that hot cocktail dress. Conversation topics that lead to sex are launching platforms and work toward altering her mindset to match yours. If executed correctly, she’ll want to finish the discussion early and move on to more physical relations.

Favorite foods: It may sound like a ho-hum topic, but like most other seemingly innocuous pieces of advice the Player has at his disposal, it’s an effective means to an end. It’s up to you to broach the conversation, but once it’s going, the direction of the discussion should be clear: you’re in a club or bar, which likely doesn’t feature any of her favorite foods. Perhaps she has a weakness for authentic Chinese food (none of that over-fried meat Americans think is Chinese food)? And yep, you know just where to get some. Clearly, the goal is to separate her from the current location; get her alone and the rest should take care of itself. Better yet, if you’re not a bad cook and she mentions something doable, you could always insist on making it for her. Don’t suggest it for that night (that's too transparent), but how about next weekend?

If you have a passion, flaunt it: There’s one thing that’s beginning to fall by the wayside, and women seem to be especially in tune to this lacking. For some reason, ambition and motivation appears to be at an all-time low amongst the 20-somethings out there, which means if you have a particular passion, flaunt it. Here’s one universal rule: women find passionate men attractive. If you are passionate about your work or your favorite hobby, there’s a damn good chance you inject that amount of emotional force into other aspects of your life. It doesn’t have to be anything sexy or even remotely feminine in nature; you could be a total gearhead, or maybe your passion is something like camping. Don’t talk her ear off; just get a little animated and get that sparkle in your eye. She’ll take notice, and she’ll want to learn more about you.

Conversation Topics That Lead To Sex.

Compliments Women Can’t Resist.

The compliment: On the surface, it’s a straightforward expression, one clearly designed for the express purpose of making someone smile and feel better about themselves, but beneath the surface lies a ceaselessly chaotic obstacle course. It’s loaded with assumptions, misinterpretations, suspicion, and even duplicity. So suddenly, the seemingly simple process of paying a compliment becomes far more complicated. Many men believe a compliment sounds perfect in their minds, but are often surprised when things “inexplicably” turn south. Well, I’m here to explain the apparently inexplicable, and why you have to be extra careful when choosing your words and delivery. Mess it up and you could be sitting alone at the club, staring at an empty mug and wondering what went wrong… So here are several compliments women can’t resist.

“I could talk to you all night long.” As you will find with many of the compliments listed here, we’re focusing on the values of a woman -- what the female deems important and flattering. Any man who has ever had even the slightest contact with the fairer sex knows that women place a high value on communication. Hence, after talking to her for a while, you need to drop the compliment that not only flatters but also excites. These are the types of compliments women can’t resist. Say it with a distinct tone of pleased surprise: “Wow, I could talk to you all night long!” Obviously, this only works if the two of you have already established a well-paced, comfortable discussion, but it’s perfect if this situation presents itself. During such a great conversation, you will be expected to provide a compliment, and there’s nothing better than this solid standby.

“I like the way your mind works.” Many women have come to expect the “Hey, you’re really smart!” comment, and these tips here are created to set you apart. Therefore, you need to take the next step that not only proves you listen, but that you’re also impressed with her mind in general. Now, despite what you may think, this compliment is not conditional; it’s not reliant on her actual intelligence. Such a comment as this can follow any remark of hers that represents a slight twist on the current subject or simply casts the subject in a new light. Something small, like an ironic observation constructed to make you smile or laugh, and you’re primed and ready to deliver the appropriate comment. She likely won’t even expect it as she wasn’t trying to impress you, and the key to any woman’s heart is an unexpected gift.

“You look fantastic.” Most men who don’t fit the “metrosexual” label get up, locate whatever is clean and put it on. On the flip side, most women spend plenty of time selecting each piece of an outfit, which is highly dependent on multiple factors. Therefore, rather than trying the tired “That’s a beautiful dress,” you can tweak it for the sake of freshness by generalizing and summing up the entire ensemble: “You look fantastic.” Make sure you comment on the fact that her earrings are a good selection and match her top, or perhaps you can notice that her shoes are the “perfect choice.” These are compliments women can’t resist because most females put a tremendous amount of emphasis on their ability to pick out fantastic outfits. It’s not so much about how they look, it’s about her skill in bringing out her most attractive features.

“You’re definitely the hottest of your group.” Although women tend to travel in groups at nightclubs and bars for general moral support and protection, don’t think for one solitary second that they’re not silently competing against one another. Perhaps they’re not literally clawing each other’s eyes out over one particular guy, but when you go out of your way to place her above her peers, she’ll lap it up like a starving kitten at a saucer of fresh milk. Many men don’t realize that women compare themselves to their friends far more often than guys do, which means such a compliment elevates the girl’s self-esteem. It’s not so much about her own vision of herself; it’s in how she appears to others, and when a man says “You’re definitely the hottest of your group,” she suddenly feels as if she has the physical edge. She won’t be overlooked when the night is over. She’ll be the one beating the guys off with a stick.

Words can speak louder... sometimesCompliments are a necessity when it comes to flirting, but much like any other Player discipline, moderation and timing dictate success ratios. Women expect the compliments to come, but they’re wary of guys who try too hard or assume too much, which means you have to be a strategist and a tactician. Observe, understand what the females will respond to and you can have a repertoire loaded with compliments women can’t resist.

Step ya chat game up fellas. Remember the goal at hand.

Compliments Women Can’t Resist.

The Player: Chitchat To Avoid.

If you’re a Player, you know that each pickup you make has its own story and that no two pickups are alike. Oftentimes for guys, they don’t know what to talk about when trying to engage in a successful pickup. Yes, a common problem among men is that there are certain conversation topics that they just shouldn’t bring up with women, no matter how alluring you may think they are. A man’s ego is fragile thing, and a bad conversation is the box it will get buried in without some careful forethought. We’ve already covered some conversation topics you should stray away from, but let’s take a peek at chitchat to avoid entirely.

Daily routine: Push paper for a living? How about hanging your laundry on a clothesline outside? Or are you the guy that has to shave twice a day? These are the kinds of topics that will instantly turn a woman’s favor against you. Daily routines are not epic adventures that she wants to hear about -- if it was the case then she’d have just as many stories, if not more.

The problem with daily routine is that it’s too easy to talk about. It’s the fallback matter that you would use as a last resort just to fill time during dinner to avoid awkward silences. Once the intelligent conversation (or lack thereof) reaches that level, your parachute is in danger of not deploying. Daily routine chatter is definitely on the list of chitchat to avoid. Find better things to talk about: scan your environment, think of a fascinating anecdote or just get her opinion on life issues.

Outlandish theories: It doesn’t matter if you believe that the U.S. government is behind terrorist attacks or if you think we’re doomed to a UFO invasion -- women don’t want to hear a guy who’s supposed to be a smooth Lothario talk like a senile old man. Sometimes the conversation veers toward philosophy, religion or politics -- and that’s a good thing. However, be prudent about what exactly you’re debating. Spouting off about unreasonable beliefs puts off the vibe that you’re going to be hard to deal with in the future, and will turn her off like a faucet.

The difficult part is knowing what defines outlandish theories. Alien and government conspiracies are obviously overt, but sometimes what’s normal to you may be threatening to her. The proper course of action is to be conscious of going off on tangents and keeping the variety of topics to within a polite range, one everyone can respect. And no -- no one is following you.

Past dates: The job interview is a good comparison for this conversation no-no: You don’t confess to your interviewer every meticulous detail about your previous employment, so why should you do the same with a new woman? This is a precarious zone to venture in because while she does want to know about your history (as any curious person would), there’s a fine line between honesty and bringing out the skeletons in your closet. Try and avoid this conversation all together, but if she persists in knowing, only give her the "gist" of your past dates, if anything at all. This isn’t a game of kiss and tell; some things should just not be mentioned, and your dating history is the type of chitchat to avoid.

The Player: Chitchat To Avoid.

How To Have Sex In A Car.

Getting off in your car is not as easy as it may sound. For those of you who have ever attempted it, you might have noticed the typical difficulties: avoiding hard objects like seats, steering wheels, dashboards, and gear sticks, and getting into a comfortable enough position to actually finish the job at hand.

Success partly depends on the type of car you have, so you will need to adjust the following suggestions on how to have sex in a car to apply to your own vehicle. These guidelines generally apply to a medium-size, four-door sedan.

Here are some tips to make your ride a little easier.

Positions and activities
There are several positions that make sex in a car easier and more fun. When you're trying to figure out how to have sex in a car, consider these maneuvers and locations:

The back seat
This can be woman-on-top or man-on-top, with the bottom participant lying on the back seat or the guy sitting. It works better if you pull the front seats as far forward as you can, to give you more room.

The front passenger seat
Push the seat as far back as it will go and take a seat. Your partner can ride you facing you or facing the windscreen with her hands on the dash for support.

The outside of the car
The hood of the car is a wonderful platform for all kinds of activities: You can go down on her while she rests her legs on your shoulders, her bottom on the edge of the car or you can enter her from front or behind while she leans her body on the hood -- and you get fresh air at the same time.

While driving
Your girl can easily get your appendage in her mouth while you drive -- slowly and carefully, for both of you. Avoid bumps or potholes and keep your eye on the road at all times, and if you feel like you are losing it, pull over immediately. A blow job is not worth damaging your car or losing the use of your legs or worse, your girlfriend's or someone else’s life.

Safety
There are many ways to get into a pickle while you try to have sex in a car: You, your partner’s and Joe Public’s physical safety are of paramount importance, simply because while you are so distracted you can’t keep your eye on other things. The key here is getting sorted before you start. So, park somewhere where you won’t roll off a cliff or get clipped by other vehicles, pull on the hand brake firmly and do your seat adjustments before you start.

Law
Most places in the world prohibit public displays of indecency, which is exactly what you are proposing to do when you try to figure out how to have sex in a car. You can be arrested, you can be fined, and you can be very, very embarrassed. However, in some countries, you can and will be arrested and sent to prison to serve a sentence for being so disrespectful.

Things to keep in mind
Keep handy some tissues or a roll of toilet paper for cleaning up, possibly a small pillow for extra comforts, water or a drink to refresh, and condoms. Avoid candles, as they are a fire hazard.

Cleanliness
You need to make sure you car is clean. Crumpled snotty tissues, takeout containers with old food in them, or McDonald’s cups leaking old flat Coke are not hot, and will detract from your efforts to have sex in a car. Crumbs and sand/dirt on the back seat will be itchy and uncomfortable, so vacuum! Do a quick clean up before your date. Condoms can also help to prevent sticky messes in the car. Without a lecture on safe sex, in a very practical sense they keep you, your girl and your car clean.

Location
Choose your spot reasonably carefully. Keep in mind that any adults or children that may be about don’t need to see you having sex in your car. If exhibitionism is your thing, choose an area that will suit you, i.e., an alleyway in the red light district. Otherwise, choose a quiet spot with some nice scenery, perhaps a nearby waterway, beach or park. If you don’t have a lot of pretty options or gas, an empty parking lot will do the trick. Try to avoid cliche locations where everyone else goes.

Imagination is a virtue: use it.

Rev it up
Sex in a car is not always great, but with a little thought and planning, you can use this exciting and interesting location within a location to make a little nasty love. Be careful, use your common sense and show respect to the rest of the world, but have plenty of fun. Get a little more inventive once you get the hang of the above positions and enjoy.

How To Have Sex In A Car.

What in the hell is wrong with this picture???

LMMFAO-ROFL.

What in the hell is wrong with this picture???