Men will often wonder, “Where’s the line?” This question can hit at any time, and even if you’ve already been with the girl, the answer can remain hazy and out of focus. You may have this particularly hot girl who you occasionally sleep with if the situation presents itself (what’s commonly known as the bed buddy or f*ck friend), and you’re considering taking things to all new heights of intense pleasure. This means pushing her past her comfort zone, which can certainly be a challenge if you’re not prepared. No still means no, but if you’ve established a certain trust with this woman, you can help bring her out of her shell. Therefore, take a gander at the following list of possibilities, partially provided by women who were good enough to speak boldly to the Player. Say “thank you” to the ladies who contributed!
Safe Light bondage:
The Player has encountered ladies who often welcome the introduction of light bondage, which shakes up the ol’ routine. Handcuffs are a relatively common tool in the bedroom, but you can be as creative as you like. Now, if the woman hasn’t ever offered herself to be restrained, it can be a somewhat nerve-racking situation, so perhaps you should offer. One particularly bold woman said, quite matter-of-factly, that there’s “nothing sexier” than a man that she can just “toy around with.” So, if she’s new to the idea of restraint, you can unlock her innate wildness by giving her the key -- literally.
Anal sex:
Some of the more adventurous couples have already experimented with this, but it can be tricky to ascertain if your lady is interested in giving it a try. Some men have tried to put the woman on the spot and push her past her comfort zone, bringing up the possibility when already locked in the middle of a passionate sexual excursion, but it’s both disrespectful and a tad manipulative. The time to bring it up is during a light foreplay session, when the thoughts of her impending pleasure are beginning to cascade through her head. She won’t feel bad about rejecting the idea and she’s still in the right position to accept it, if she’s so inclined.
Risky positions:
It’s one of the single biggest complaints women have, and even though it depicts men in a less-than-rosy light, it’s still true: Guys just aren’t imaginative enough in the bedroom. They have their favorite position and they’ll occasionally mix it up every now and then, but it’s not enough to keep a woman on her toes; it’s not enough to keep her guessing; it’s not enough to push her past her comfort zone and into lioness territory. Got a copy of the Kama Sutra? Do some research, and the next time you two drop to the bed, prepare to introduce her to a good half-dozen positions she’s not expecting. And watch what happens…
Moderate Toys:
Too many men believe that toys are restricted to solo performances, but you may be surprised to learn that some women would like you to experiment a bit with their toys. When the two of you are together, and you’re aware of her little stash, perhaps you could bring up the idea of introducing the items into your foreplay session. Some girls really get off on having their own toys used on them, and it’s a relatively easy subject to broach. Nobody can really get hurt, the woman likely won’t take offense to the suggestion and if she’s not into it, a simple “no” isn’t exactly embarrassing.
Safe Light bondage:
The Player has encountered ladies who often welcome the introduction of light bondage, which shakes up the ol’ routine. Handcuffs are a relatively common tool in the bedroom, but you can be as creative as you like. Now, if the woman hasn’t ever offered herself to be restrained, it can be a somewhat nerve-racking situation, so perhaps you should offer. One particularly bold woman said, quite matter-of-factly, that there’s “nothing sexier” than a man that she can just “toy around with.” So, if she’s new to the idea of restraint, you can unlock her innate wildness by giving her the key -- literally.
Anal sex:
Some of the more adventurous couples have already experimented with this, but it can be tricky to ascertain if your lady is interested in giving it a try. Some men have tried to put the woman on the spot and push her past her comfort zone, bringing up the possibility when already locked in the middle of a passionate sexual excursion, but it’s both disrespectful and a tad manipulative. The time to bring it up is during a light foreplay session, when the thoughts of her impending pleasure are beginning to cascade through her head. She won’t feel bad about rejecting the idea and she’s still in the right position to accept it, if she’s so inclined.
Risky positions:
It’s one of the single biggest complaints women have, and even though it depicts men in a less-than-rosy light, it’s still true: Guys just aren’t imaginative enough in the bedroom. They have their favorite position and they’ll occasionally mix it up every now and then, but it’s not enough to keep a woman on her toes; it’s not enough to keep her guessing; it’s not enough to push her past her comfort zone and into lioness territory. Got a copy of the Kama Sutra? Do some research, and the next time you two drop to the bed, prepare to introduce her to a good half-dozen positions she’s not expecting. And watch what happens…
Moderate Toys:
Too many men believe that toys are restricted to solo performances, but you may be surprised to learn that some women would like you to experiment a bit with their toys. When the two of you are together, and you’re aware of her little stash, perhaps you could bring up the idea of introducing the items into your foreplay session. Some girls really get off on having their own toys used on them, and it’s a relatively easy subject to broach. Nobody can really get hurt, the woman likely won’t take offense to the suggestion and if she’s not into it, a simple “no” isn’t exactly embarrassing.
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