The Player: Push Her Past Her Comfort Zone - Pt 2.


Sex in public:
The majority of women I’ve spoken with really embrace the risk; the age-old concept of “danger is sexy” continues to resonate with the females, regardless of age or era. When a woman is asked: “What’s the wildest thing you’ve ever done?” a common answer involves sex in a public area, and the greater the risk of getting caught, the hotter it was. It’s all about spontaneity; some hotties will be impressed if you nab them during a long elevator ride or push them up against the wall of a dressing room. Just remember, if they’re not into it, you need to abandon the idea immediately.

Videotape the fun:
In the age of technology, more and more people are starting to tape their sexual encounters (say “hello” Pam and Tommy). Some women are very much against the idea, though, so don’t step over the line and secretly tape the action. That’s slimy with a capital “S.” However, many women have told me -- in hushed yet decidedly excited tones -- that a camera can really expand on and push her past her comfort zone, and sometimes, they’re not sure how they’ll behave. If you’re convinced your woman is capable of going further, and she’s just yearning to break the mold, offer to break out the webcam. But at least try to keep it under wraps, yes?

Wild Threesome:
Usually, this is a step that requires some planning and discussion, but if both of you are willing to experiment to the max, there’s always the option of adding another body to the amorous cauldron of uninhibited pleasure. It’s the Holy Grail of Player-dom, and women have specifically said to me that they’re not quite as adverse to the idea as some guys think. This is the type of wild experience that can open new doors but can also open a giant can of worms if things go awry; therefore, it’s best to solidify the ground rules before embarking. If both of you give the green light, though, you may see your girl smash through so-called boundaries with reckless abandon.

Get her into the dominatrix role:
Women love control. They can dance around it all they like, but deep down, they’re partial to having a firm grasp on things, and if they’re willing to take it to a new level, you might be the sex slave for a night. A woman acting as a dominatrix can get this glazed, dangerous look in her eye, and at that point you'll realize that her ministrations will send you on a mind-blowing roller-coaster ride. Even though it’d be erroneous to assume that all women would be down for this, it’d also be a mistake to think that an especially brash young lady wouldn’t go absolutely wild when faced with a good amount of leather.

Wild thang:
If you’re not willing to take the chance, you may have to resign yourself to a lifetime of predictable, ho-hum sex. On the other hand, if you take a confident step, treat the woman with the appropriate amount of respect and go into everything with an open mind, your world can explode in a fantastic array of new sensations and experiences. Where does her comfort zone end? Can you push her past her comfort zone? How will you know if you never feel around for the answer (pun intended)?

Dont be scurred. PB.

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