The first kiss holds a lot of importance. It can make or break a fledgling relationship. Will Smith’s Hitch wasn’t exaggerating when he said that a woman decides if she’s going to sleep with a guy based on how the first kiss goes. All women want to have “good kisser” high on the list of qualities her new man possesses. Take our advice to wow her on the first date, and she’ll be back for more. However, make one of these mistakes and your first kiss will be your last.
These are the ways to screw up a first kiss, and how you should have gone about it from the get-go.
Being too enthusiastic
Show a little restraint when you go in for the first kiss. In fact, let her do the initiating if possible. It can be difficult to assess whether or not a girl is welcoming a night-ending smooch, so if you’re not sure, put the ball in her court. Let her know you had a great time, tell her she looks beautiful and then lean in close enough for her to take the hint.Not being enthusiastic enough
You should also be careful not to be too aloof when it comes to the first kiss. You shouldn’t pretend that you don’t care about whether it happens or not, this is definitely one of the ways to screw up a first kiss. You should let her know you’re interested, but subtly. If you wait for her to make a move without any indication that it is what you want, you may be waiting for a long time since women are generally not comfortable with initiating the big firsts in a relationship. Try to strike a balance between eagerness and detachment for your first kiss.Mistiming it
The timing of the first kiss is essential. A first kiss shouldn’t be a surprise, so wait for the right moment. The right moment is not while she has food in her mouth at the restaurant, while her roommate or another audience is watching or when she is riffling through her purse for her keys. Wait until she’s paying attention before you lean in for the kiss or things could get really awkward and turn into one of the ways to screw up a first kiss.Copping a feel
Unless it has been made quite clear that the first kiss is the beginning of a booty call, you should keep your hands to yourself. Grabbing her ass or squeezing a breast is absolutely unacceptable and one of the fastest ways to screw up a first kiss. If you have to touch her, try cupping her face with your hands or wrapping your arms around her in an intimate (but innocent) hug. Consider any areas more intimate than that to be no-go zones for the time being.Having bad breath
This one is common sense. If your breath stinks, the first kiss may be your last. Don’t go overboard on the breath fresheners (pulling out the breath spray as you walk her to her door is corny and presumptuous), but do make sure that the smell and taste of your mouth isn’t offensive in any way. Take advantage of the after-dinner mint or pop in a piece of gum (but take it out before the kiss).Drooling and stubble
When you pull away from the first kiss, your date should not have to wipe the saliva (or any other substances) off her face. Keep the drool under control and make sure to wipe your nose beforehand. Also, a woman’s delicate face should not be subjected to the sandpaper texture of your facial hair, so don’t press your face to hers before considering exactly how clean shaven you are. Your 5 o’clock shadow may look sexy, but it might not feel that way to her soft cheeks.a kiss is just a kiss
Not all kisses are created equal, but if you follow AM’s advice, you’ll have a better chance of impressing her with the first one so that you can ensure there are many more kisses to follow.
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