Is it ok to share??? Pt.1

This is ya guy the MaD Mogul touchin' base with you as only I can. Taking real situations and topics and asking the inevitable question...WTF??? OK so that was a poor attempt @ humor so today's post is a result of well...too many men not enough women. More specifically is OK for a guy to date or have sex with the same female one of his closest friends or associates have? I gotta get @ this issue b/c it has altered several of my friendships and I am witnessing it destroy another one of my associates b/c he plain and simply can't seem to keep his ladies in line.

Scenario 1 Guy A has been casually having sex with Girl A for about a year or two, nothing serious and they openly admit they aren't exclusive. Friend A knows Girl A as well so he asks Guy A if he can get @ (talk to/date) Girl A... Guy A says sure. Why? B/c Guy A is arrogant and doesn't think Girl A will really mess with his friend...BUT she does!!! Not only does she have sex with him she doesn't want to tell Guy A being the man Friend A is he thinks is only right to tell his friend after all she's just a jump off right...WRONG!!! Guy A is hurt by Friend A having sex with Girl A. To make matters worse Guy A hates on Friend A to Girl A who in turn tells Friend A who she now screws on the regular (pardon the vulgarity).

It hurts Friend A to hear some of the things Guy A has said about him, things Girl A couldn't make up b/c they are only things a close friend would know. But didn't Guy A say it was OK for Friend A to get it in or was that his ego talking and the same ego that was bruised when his jump off decided to jump ship after all he's "the man." Lesson 1 guys if she's not your girl friend and you care about her don't act like or say she's just some chic. Men do this to maintain their status as "the man," a player, the leader of the pack if you will...

Lesson 2 women are just like guys if they see an attractive friend of yours and no parameters are set they have no reason not to go for it...Some people will say that's scandalise but is it any different than what we already do as singles or is the idea of one your men blowin' the back outta a shorty you use to mess with or wanted to mess with too much to handle....Listen people especially my guys if she's off limits, say she's off limits or wife her. During the nineties Snoop made a song to a describe how guys should handle their booper's "IT AIN'T NO FUNNY IF THE HOMIES CAN'T HAVE NONE!" Stay tuned for part 2

Is it ok to share??? Pt.1